Game Profile Survey

My primary lens is Pick one

My secondary lens (the one that shows up under heavier stress) is Pick one

My partner's lens, as they described it to me during “Read Me, Don't Diagnose Me,” is Pick one

The Noble Birth: my lens helped me survive or accomplish Pick one

The gift my lens brings to our relationship Pick one

My most common activators are Pick up to 4

When I'm activated, my body tends to Pick all that apply

My “go to” thought about why others treat me like they do is Pick up to 2

What I'm usually trying to protect is Pick up to 2

My automatic move when activated is Pick up to 2

What helps me return Pick up to 3

What usually adds gasoline Pick up to 3

Where does our cycle most often start? Pick up to 2

When does it most often happen? Pick one

How intense is our cycle typically? Pick one

I feel SAFEST when my partner Pick up to 3

I experience PARTNERSHIP when we Pick up to 3

I feel AFFECTION when my partner Pick up to 4

I experience LOVE & RESPECT (that I matter) when my partner Pick up to 3

The result I most want to grow in the next 90 days is Pick one

Our current behaviors are producing this level of SAFETY for me Pick one

Our current behaviors are producing this level of PARTNERSHIP for me Pick one

Our current behaviors are producing this level of AFFECTION for me Pick one

Our current behaviors are producing this level of LOVE & RESPECT for me Pick one

How much of the game should focus on physical intimacy? Pick one

My most important agreement around physical affection is Pick up to 2

If this relationship were something to build, I most want to create more Pick up to 3

A dream I'd love us to take a first step toward in the next 90 days Pick one

Daily time I can realistically commit Pick one

Weekly “bigger experience” time I can commit Pick one

Total budget for the 90 days Pick one

Game formats that appeal to me Pick up to 3

The final celebration that would mean the most to me Pick one